Leisure: A Word Worth Redefining

We often think of leisure as a luxury, a reward, a bonus round after the hard work is done.

But what if leisure isn’t something we earn—what if it’s something we design?

The word leisure has evolved across centuries. Its roots trace back to the Old French “leisir,” derived from the Latin “licere” meaning to be allowed or free. Early uses of the word suggested permission, spaciousness, and liberty: the idea of having unclaimed time, open for one’s pursuits.

Somewhere along the way, though, leisure began to lose its depth. In modern life, it’s often mistaken for laziness—or reserved only for vacations and weekends. For many, especially women in their second act, leisure has been pushed to the margins by caregiving, careers, and responsibilities.

But leisure is not idleness. And it’s certainly not frivolous.

Leisure is a powerful expression of our lives. It reflects our values, curiosity, and willingness to choose joy on purpose.

Leisure is one of the most significant indicators of well-being. It can nourish your creativity, expand your worldview, strengthen relationships, and give you a more profound sense of self. Leisure doesn’t just “fill time”—it enriches it.

So, what does leisure look like now?

That’s the beauty: it’s yours to define.
Maybe it’s tending a garden and learning watercolor painting, wandering through a new city, or attending a community class. Leisure isn’t always loud or grand—it’s often found in the quiet freedom of reclaimed moments.

Here’s how to make leisure work for you in this chapter:

• Redesign Your Schedule: Make space for joy before everything else fills your calendar.
  
• Follow Energy: Notice what excites you—and let that be your compass.
  
• Stay Curious: Try new experiences, even if you’re “not good” at them. Play is part of purpose.
  
• Honor the Little Moments: Leisure doesn’t require hours—it only asks for presence.
  

Leisure, at its core, is permission to pause, to play, and to pursue what lights you. Choosing leisure is a radical act of self-respect. And in this vibrant second act of life, it’s not just allowed—it’s essential.

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